Tantric Ejaculation Control: Learn to Cum When *You* Want To

Imagine having full ejaculation control. You can make love with your partner as long as you want. You can fuck her as hard as you want, as long as you want, in any position you want, without cumming, unless you wanted to.

Maybe you can already last for quite a while, but would like to be able to keep going for hours. Maybe your sessions, from the moment of penetration onwards, last the average amount of time; five to seven minutes, and going for 15 plus sounds awesome. Maybe you’re struggling to even make it to five minutes.

Wherever you’re at, the information and techniques on ejaculation control here will help you take control of your sexual energy, build your sexual prowess, and your confidence both inside and outside of the bedroom.

How do I know what I’m talking about? Because I used to be somewhere between the ‘going five to seven minutes’, and ‘wishing I could even make it to five minutes’ range. In the past I did some of the things that you might find in other advice columns on how to last longer in bed – wore condoms to reduce sensitivity, used alcohol to relax, jacked off before a big date, tried to think about unsexy things like my grandmother naked, etc. Sometimes these approaches worked ok, but I still didn’t have much stamina, and I never had much confidence.

Sex was always fraught with the fear, ‘what if I cum too soon?’ Occasionally there was so much stress that I couldn’t even get it up. There were times when I could go on for a while, but there were just as many times that I lost it too quick, leading to embarrassment, shame and further destroying my confidence.

Six years ago I was introduced to Tantra – a spiritual system entwined with Yoga that also embraces sexuality. Tantra is about expansion of the consciousness, and sexual Tantra accepts that we spontaneously have these high states of consciousness, manifesting as love, bliss & presence, when we orgasm. And the more powerful the orgasm, the more powerful this expansion.

However, the normal male orgasm lasts only a few seconds, and most women cannot orgasm at all in that five to seven minute window, and need at least 20 minutes of lovemaking to have deep internal orgasms. So in the circles that practice Tantric sexuality, there are many techniques to extend lovemaking. After learning and practicing these ejaculation control techniques I can now routinely make love for over an hour, not including foreplay.

So what are these techniques?

Well first of all, don’t do any of the things I mentioned before. Don’t use alcohol for sexual prowess, don’t try and distract yourself, don’t ‘let of steam’ by ejaculating before sex.

So what do you do?

 

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with love and gratitude,

Amitayus

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